Frequently Asked Questions !

  1. Why should I choose your site over others? Answer
  2. Why does your site feature a 24 question profile? Answer
  3. How does your forumn WoMen Questions
                                            Men Answer work?   Answer
  4. What is the Out & About page on my profile? Answer
  5. How does Dimensional Matching work? Answer
  6. Why are their character restrictions placed on fields throughout your website? Answer
  7. Explain the profile review feature. Answer
  8. I am having difficulties uploading my picture/video. What should I do? Answer
  9. How much does it cost to become a member? Answer
10. I am having connection problems/site performance issues. What should I do? Answer
11. Who do I contact regarding a billing concern? Answer
12. My picture has been stolen and being used by another member. What should I do? Answer
13. How do I submit a comment or suggestion for your site? Answer
14. How do you handle offensive photos and/or offensive language in member's profiles? Answer
15. Is there a way to speak anonymously with other members without revealing my phone number? Answer
16. Can I suppend my account temporarily? Answer
17. How can I block other members from contacting me? Answer
18. Can I anonymously review a members profile? Answer
19. How do I post a FOR SALE item or post a question for a POLL? Answer
20. How does video chat work? Answer
21. How does video instant message work? Answer
22. How do I send a link to a friend? Answer
23. Can I perform a search without creating a profile? Answer
24. How do I perform a search by state as well as by country and zip? Answer
25. Is meeting people on-line safe? Answer
26. How do you respect your members privacy? Do you sell my email address and or any information? Answer

Q: Why should I choose your website over others?

A: We at theAlternativeman.com are proud to announce to you after years of polls and personal research, we have designed a unique site that will suit your individual taste, capture your attention and fulfill all your expectations. Most importantly we've created a new & infinitive platform for men who has escalated from the normality’s of today's internet and the single life and are now seriously seeking a relationship.......theAlternative to Single Life !

We are ecstatic to launch this new site to the public as we cater our site to today's woman who seeks the same.

We’ve incorporated intelligent solutions and techniques that place us a cut above other sites by incorporating the following site specific features:

       1. Extensive profile reviews
       2. Communication analysis
       3. In-depth Personality Profiles
       4. Dimensional Matching (15 elements)
       5. Grammar and language compliance
       6. No explicit photo uploads
       7. Video Instant Message
       8. Video Upload
       9. WoMen Questions
                Men Answer
     10. Out & About

We are convinced these features can and will make a dramatic difference to you. Features built upon the excellence you have grown to expect and require in today's world as you proceed to pursue an extraordinary individual.

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Q: Why does you site feature a 24 question profile?

A: We here at theAlternativeman.com feels in order for you to adequately self assess an individual we need to ask more in-depth questions. Several of our questions are optional (unless otherwise stated). We strive to ask questions that are important to you. Our 24 question profile allows you to dwell into the mind of an individual before you decide to meet and or date them. We think you would appreciate more information about an individual. Remember, we take dating serious!
(All 24 questions are not required to be completed when joining. To take advantage of all 24 questions please go to =>Edit Profile <= upon completion of your profile to answer full questionaire.)

Q: How does your forumn WoMen Questions work?
                                               Men Answer

A: Our most popular forumn allows Women to ask the Questions and our Men Answer! Ever wanted to know just why men do what they do? Want to get a better understanding of the male and never had the nerve to ask your man? Well this is the platform desgined espically for these situations. Post your Questions today ladies and return daily for Answers from our men. (We ask that you use decretion and language sensorship in order to uphold site integrity).

Q: What is the Out & About page on my profile?

A: Our Out & About page is used to allow other members to see where you have been recently seen around the city. You have the option to add up to three Out & About scenes to your profile. These scene includes your attire, location and date. Just in case someone saw you and did'nt speak. This will allow the member to speak this time. The possibilities are endless.

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Q: How does Dimensional Matching work?

A: We have totally re-engineered our dimensional matching feature. Deminsional matching allows you to select up to 15 different elements and characteristics of an individual which you would like to be matched with. You do not have to select all 15. The more precise your matching criteria will eliminate you having to search through individuals who are not compatiable. You can expect to meet exact compatiable individuals based on our matching feature.

Q: Why are their character restrictions placed on fields throughout theAlternativeman.com website?

A: We feel this is needed in order for you to give the upmost characteristic of you and your perspective date.

Q: What does profile reviews mean?

A: Profile review gives a member notifications of other members who has reviewed their profile.

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Q: I am having difficulties uploading my picture / profile.

A: Check to make sure you are uploading a picture with the correct format as defined in upload media section. Check to make sure your picture and or profile is in compliance with our website. If you still have questions and or problems please contact:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

Q: How much does it cost to become a member?

A: Currently it's FREE ! Standard membership rate starts at $8.95 a month.

Q: I cannot stay connected to your website? Or I receive an error message when I try to perform certain feature. What should I do?

A: Should you experience any difficulties connecting to our site or receive any connection errors, please contact:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

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Q: Whom do I contact regarding a billing concern and or discrepancy?

A: If you have any questions, comments and or disputes regarding billing please contact:

Billing: Billing@thealternativeman.com

Q: My picture has been stolen? What should I do?

A: We have placed edits within our site programs to eliminate this function. In the event someone has managed to steal your photo, please contact us immediately with the name of the user and your information to:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

Q: How do I submit a suggestion and or improvement for the site?

A: We welcome all suggestions and or comments regarding theAlternativeman.com website. Send your comments and or suggestions to:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

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Q: Offensive language in profile / Offensive pictures.

A: We monitor theAlternativeman.com website frequently. Posting defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, offensive, obscene, threatening, racially offensive, illegal materials, or any material that infringes or violates the law or another member's right/rights of privacy is prohibited. If you feel that a profile contains such, or a member uses such act’s please contact:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

Q: Is there a way to speak anonymously with other members of theAlternativeman.com without revealing my phone number?

A: This feature is currently under development.

Q: Can I suspend my account while on vacation ?

A: Yes. Just click suspend from the home page.

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Q: Can I block other members from contacting me?

A: Yes. Click the BLOCK MEMBER feature from your home page.

Q: Can I anonymously review a profile?

A: Currently this option is not available.

Q: How do I post a FOR SALE item and or post a question for the POLLS ?

A: Send complete information to:

Generalinquiries: Generalinquiries@thealternativeman.com

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Q: How does Video Chat work?

A: Video Chat allows you to interact instantly with other members online at the same time as you. Click chat and select your room of choice. Then you may contact any member within the chat room and interact with them via our live video chat feature.

Q: How does Video Instant Message work?

A: Video instant message allows you to view the member you wish to exchange message with via video. You can actually see the member via video cam as you instant message them.

Q: Can I send a link to a friend?

A: Yes. Click on the send link feature from the home page.

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Q: Can I perform a search without creating a profile?

A: Not at this time. You must be a registered member with us in order to perform a search. It only takes a few minutes to register your profile.

Q: Can I do a search by state as well as a search by country and zip?

A: Yes, this option is available via the search and advanced search features.

Q: Is meeting people online safe ?

A: While using our site alone with any other online sites, it is imperative that you keep safety in mind at all times. Please use pre-cautionary steps when deciding to meet members from our site or from any other site. Please refrain from providing members of our site with pertinent information which can be used in a fraudulent matter.

Q: Do you sell membership information and or email address ?

A: No. We at theAlternativeman.com do not sell customer information. We respect your privacy.

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